Wednesday, January 28, 2009

What a pain in the ass emotions can be!

Based on the comments on my post yesterday, I think that maybe I implied some things that aren't true. There were a couple of comments about sharing boyfriends or common partners and whatnot...

Just to clarify, my hooking up with her ex-boyfriend is a non-issue. She always knew about that, and it was long before they dated (she hooked up with him in college, too). It would be "prudishly misleading" of me to imply that those sorts of things have never happened before, either:-P. There are no secrets there.

The issue was around his profession of some additional feelings for me, and her not being aware of that. She just felt like it was something she should have known, and I can't really blame her.

I talked to her for a bit last night, and she is considerably less irritated with me. She spoke with him yesterday, and he cleared some of it up, too (plus, it gave her someone else to be mad at...someone she already has some mixed feelings for...took me off the hook!).

So, I think we are good. She is definitely a little upset, and I think she feels like she looked kinda stupid the whole time, which is totally NOT the case. He may have had a little crush on me, but he was nuts about her, and never would have broken up with her if given the choice. I think she gets that now, and understands that his little confession to me was much more cute than it was serious. So, I think it will all be fine... (Munchkin, who only gets some of the details on things like this...hee hee..., has suggested sending her flowers or candy or cookies, which I think is a fine idea!)

Change of subject...

Those of you that check in with gChat and see my updates are likely aware of the fact that Boss Foxy, Big Sis and I had salads and massages at lunch yesterday. Absolute fucking heaven!!! And, we actually got some work done, too...it was not a totally frivolous trip. OK, Big Sis and Boss Foxy did a lot of discussing and I did a lot of enjoying...but whatever, I was involved!

Work has actually been really busy this week, and looks like it will be for a while. Nothing huge, just a whole bunch of small to medium sized stuff going on, so everyone is pretty well at capacity. Actually kind of a good feeling, even though it cuts down on my blogging/chatting time quite a bit. Good thing I can multi-task...

Anyway...it's snowing again...there's a shock. I think this is supposed to be a messy one, 4-6 inches of snow and then a lot of rain and then a lot of freezing. Basically, a whole bunch of "ICK!!!". Makes me want to move up my trip to Florida from the end of February until...oh...how about tomorrow? Or this afternoon... Seriously, this shit is total BS!!!

7 comments:

laurwilk said...

I totally hear you on the weather. NYC is an absurdly sloppy mess. I wore boots and my feet were still soaking. It is miserable.

I'm glad things with Body are sort of cleared up. Things will be back to normal soon. There's way too much 'there' for things to ever change for long. Obviously, you know that.

Munchkin is cute! I think you should send her wine. I feel like I need to send some of my friends wine lately. Or maybe vodka.

W T G said...

After reading your entry about yesterday's productive work day, where do I apply ? I enjoy reading your entries ....very entertaining. Thankfully it's not snowing here however, it's supposed to be on the 'cool side' .... only 65 !
~Cheers

Rachel H. said...

Lunch and massage...I'm so jealous! And your blog title...yes, I can totally relate. Ugh!!

Princess Extraordinaire said...

I am glad things are cooling off with her - you need to get out here to sunny Orange County, Ca and get away from old man winter...

Still just me said...

Snowing here too. I did a cool 360 into my banks drive up window this morning!

Ys said...

I want snow! It's just cold and drizzly here :/

Ine Oroh said...

Hah! This is what happens when I left off reading ur blog for 2 weeks and catch it up in one sitting: Giving stale comments :(
But anyway, REALLY glad that it blew over the right way between the two of you :)